Marriage Mondays
#MarriageMondays – Baakedi and Walter
Names: Baakedi & Walter Rachidi
Married since: March 2018
Pet names: Angel & Honey
Scripture foundation: 1 Peter 3:1-7
Where did you meet?
We met at church
Was it love at first sight?
No, it wasn’t really love at first sight
What attracted you to each other?
The God in each other
Why did you get married?
To help each other fulfil God’s mandate and our purpose on earth
How did he propose?
He shipped the ring all the way to Paris and proposed during a romantic dinner
How has marriage changed you?
It has enriched the sense of selflessness and devotion.
What has marriage taught you?
Patience and the understanding that love is more than emotions, but a decision
What do you love most about being married?
Knowing that we’re building one of the greatest institutions God honours. The comfort of living pleasurable benefits that add up to serving God
What are some of the challenges you’ve faced in marriage and how did you overcome them?
Communicating one’s feelings without oppressing the other partner’s character. We overcame that by communicating some more.
What do you mostly fight about?
Time, Punctuality
What irritates you about each other?
The fact that I have to repeat certain things over and over to him. The fact that she doesn’t always have her phone on her.
How do you keep love alive?
Date Nights
What do you do for fun together?
We are very spontaneous, so anything we feel like doing, we do.
What do you think is the reason for people to not believe in the institution of marriage?
It’s God’s highest institution where servitude is the highest honour. Whether it’s to God and/or your spouse.
What advice do you have for people who intend on getting married?
Proverbs 24:27 Complete your outdoor work first then only go and build your house